Things happen for a reason, ya know!? we grow from our experiences, we learn from our pain.. Pain hurts enough to NOT learn from it... Its what we make of it, its what we take with us. How we choose to be a surviver, how we choose to look at the positives and go away with the negatives, how we choose to let it effect us... Its the ability we have to fully trust God and just walk where He guides. What other guidance is better?? Not our own, thats for sure, we must walk exactly where he Guides, because HE will provide. Going thru things and how we cope is brought on by what we know... how much we know.
I cant tell you how many times i have truly felt that lonely feeling..like, i just needed and wanted someone... to be there, lean on, rely on, talk to, feel comfort from... man, it can be hard to endure, yet afterwards it seems to build so much character and be somewhat of foundamental building blocks to making us a better person. Jesus felt every feeling/emotion we will ever feel.. that in itself is complete comfort.
People can judge, and they do.. AND they forever will.. but what do people really know?... I mean, nobody ever truly knows another's heart. Maybe because it takes too much time, maybe because some people just dont have it in them... But people can judge, and assume, and point the finger, etc. But what I know in my heart, what you know.. the peace you feel, and the peace i feel, and the happiness you achieve.. ok, we are all individuals.. each and everyone of us is different and unique.. and thats not a bad thing, in my opinion- thats what makes the world a fasinating place.. We have all had our own struggles, battles, victories, etc. WHO IS ANYONE TO JUDGE??? I just dont get it, i mean... why?? Are we not suppose to love, befriend, show compassion? Ok, so we know everyone makes mistakes.. nobody is perfect (im so close it scares me though) lol.. but really... nobody is perfect, And we can talk about peace, and love, and faith and hope.. but isnt there a saying that "actions speak louder than words"??????? so why dont we act on it?
Some people need help acting on things, others need patience so they can do it when they are ready, others never will do what should've done. All you can do is worry about you and what you can do. If it takes you swallowing your pride to make a situation better or help something work out, do it. But, only if you can see the end, and that end has you smiling.
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